In the Catholic funeral rite the focus is on Christ, his death and resurrection, and the promise we have of life after death. While we pray for the deceased, he or she is not the principal focus of the rite. Consequently, any remembrance of the deceased during mass needs to be kept in perspective, and Eulogies, Words of Rememberance, or Final Commendations are not part of the Funeral Mass but a courtisy granted by the Pastor.

This note is intended to give some guidance to those offering reflections on the deceased during the funeral mass itself. There are, of course, other opportunities to offer reflections. One time that offers greater flexibility is at a collation or meal following the burial. At that time several persons can share reflections in this informal setting. One could also speak at the wake or at the cemetery.